Stretching The Moments

This week I did a week-long facilitation and the “vibe” was incredible. Usually, I am not a night owl in the hotel bar, because I want to be fresh and recharged for each day of being “on”. But as I said, the vibe was incredible. I found myself having a tough time making it through the lobby and bar without stopping every three feet to talk to another group of participants. It was so great to be connecting and building relationships. These are important moments at an event.

As time went on, people kept commenting, “I thought you were going to bed two hours ago.” I thought I was too, but there was so much warmth and enjoyment being shared. It signified that the individuals were engaging and memorable enough to make time seem like it flew by. Instead of feeling pressured to leave quickly, I allowed myself to savor the moment, deepen relationships, and create lasting memories. This lingering atmosphere was fostering stronger connections, making the event more meaningful for everyone involved.

Moreover, such moments highlight a sense of comfort and genuine camaraderie. We all valued each other’s presence and the fun or meaningful conversations we shared. It transformed the experience from a simple social obligation into an enjoyable ritual, where the focus is on connection rather than deadlines. In a way, stretching out these moments showcases that quality time is worth cherishing, even if it means delaying bedtime for a little while longer.

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