Leading On The Path Toward A Clear Goal

As I was reading The Fellowship Of The Ring by J. R. R. Tolkien yesterday I was struck by this description of Gandalf by Tolkien: “To Gandalf the far-off memories of a journey long before were now of little help, but even in the gloom and despite all windings of the road he knew whither he wished to go, and he did not falter, as long as there was a path that led towards his goal.” Tolkien created a great leadership example in Gandalf. He modeled that hope is preserved through small consistent actions.

From Tolkien’s statement about Gandalf, we can learn the importance of perseverance and clarity of purpose. Despite facing darkness and complex obstacles (“gloom” and “windings of the road”), Gandalf remains steadfast because he knows his destination and the path to achieve it. This highlights that having a clear goal and unwavering resolve can help us navigate through life’s uncertainties and challenges without faltering. It reminds us to stay focused on our objectives, trust in our direction, and persist even when the journey becomes difficult.
You Cannot Trust Us To Let You Face Trouble Alone

I loved this from Frodo’s friends as he was preparing for a difficult and dangerous journey in J. R. R. Tolkien’s The Fellowship of the Ring: “‘You can trust us to stick to you through thick and thin – to the bitter end. And you can trust us to keep any secret of yours – closer than you keep it yourself. But you cannot trust us to let you face trouble alone, and go off without a word. We are your friends, Frodo. Anyway: there it is.” This declaration of friendship from Frodo’s fellow Hobbits underscores that real friendship involves loyalty, trust, confidentiality, and a willingness to face hardships together—lessons that are valuable in our everyday relationships.

Frodo’s friends were highlighting key qualities of true friendship. It reminds us that genuine friends are loyal and dependable—they stand by you “through thick and thin,” offering unwavering support and trust. They also respect our privacy, being trusted to keep secrets confidential. Importantly, true friends don’t abandon us in difficult times; instead, they face challenges together with us, ensuring we’re never alone in trouble. Are you being a true friend?
Advice Is A Dangerous Gift

As I continue reading J. R. R. Tolkien’s The Fellowship of the Ring I keep reminding myself that Tolkien did not use nor like allegory. However, I still can’t help myself from being intrigued by scenes in the book and wanting to connect them to some lesson. One such scene was the conversation between Frodo and Gildor. Here is what they said: “‘And it is also said,’ answered Frodo: ‘Go not to the Elves for counsel, for they will say both no and yes.’ ‘Is it indeed?’ laughed Gildor. ‘Elves seldom give unguarded advice, for advice is a dangerous gift, even from the wise to the wise, and all courses may run ill. But what would you? You have not told me all concerning yourself; and how then shall I choose better than you? But if you demand advice, I will for friendship’s sake give it. I think you should now go at once, without delay;…” (p. 84). Frodo’s and Gildor’s words highlight the cautious nature of the Elves when giving advice, emphasizing how even the wise can be guarded.

The elves are wise and experienced, but also careful about sharing their knowledge and advice, knowing that words can have unintended consequences or that their insights might be misunderstood or misused. The quote recognizes importance of discretion: Sometimes, it’s better to be cautious about what we share, especially when the information could be sensitive or misunderstood.
There is wisdom in silence. Silence or restraint can be powerful, allowing us to observe and understand before speaking. We need to Recognizing that different people may interpret advice differently, and that sometimes holding back is a sign of wisdom.
Ring Of Power

I am reading J. R. R. Tolkien’s The Fellowship of the Ring right now as part of my Continuing Scholar work at the Marion E. Wade Center. In the story Gandalf told Frodo, “A Ring of Power looks after itself, Frodo. It may slip off treacherously, but its keeper never abandons it. At most he plays with the idea of handing it on to someone else’s care – and that only at an early stage, when it first begins to grip.” Even though J.R.R. Tolkien did not like the use of allegory or intentionally use allegory, the “Ring of Power” can serve as a powerful metaphor with valuable lessons. For example, it can illustrate the dangers of absolute power and corruption, the importance of humility and restraint, or the idea that what seems to offer power and control can ultimately lead to destruction.

Using the “Ring of Power” as a lesson encourages us to reflect on how the pursuit of power influences behavior and decisions, emphasizing caution, self-awareness, and the need for integrity in leadership and personal choices. Just like the ring and the power the ring possessed were almost impossible to give up, so are the many powers we often possess impossible to give up and become all consuming and fuel a desire for more.
The “Ring of Power” can also symbolize the seductive nature of material possessions and the way they can influence our values and priorities. Just like the ring grants immense power, material things can seem to offer security, status, or happiness. However, they can also become sources of obsession, greed, or distraction from what truly matters. The lesson is to recognize how attachment to material possessions can lead us astray, encourage moderation, and remind us to value inner qualities like integrity, humility, and meaningful relationships over fleeting material wealth. Ultimately, the ring serves as a reminder that true strength and fulfillment come from within, not from external possessions.
The Power of Ping-Ponging Ideas: Enhancing Community Collaboration

Today, during a discussion in the final day of a weeklong training of National FFA Teacher Ambassadors, one of the Ambassadors shared she loved the ping-ponging of ideas we did during the sessions. I was so proud to hear this because I really believe our work gets better in community. There is such power in heuristic learning and sharing. When I think of community and collaboration, I’m reminded of C. S. Lewis’s Inklings who provided J. R. R. Tolkien with encouragement and Lewis the right story.
In any vibrant community, innovation and progress often stem from dynamic conversations and the free exchange of ideas. One particularly effective method to foster this exchange is ping-ponging ideas — a process where thoughts, suggestions, and feedback bounce back and forth among members, much like a lively game of table tennis.
What Is Ping-Ponging Ideas?
Ping-ponging ideas involves collaborative brainstorming where participants actively listen, respond, and build upon each other’s contributions. Instead of linear discussions, this approach encourages a rhythm of giving and receiving, allowing ideas to evolve organically through continuous dialogue.
Why Is It Valuable for Communities?
- Encourages Creativity and Innovation: When ideas are bounced around, they often spark new perspectives and creative solutions that might not emerge in solitary thinking or one-sided discussions.
- Builds Collective Ownership: Engaging everyone in the idea-generation process fosters a sense of ownership and commitment to the community’s initiatives, leading to increased participation and support.
- Strengthens Relationships: Regular exchange of ideas creates connections among members, building trust and understanding that can translate into stronger collaboration.
- Facilitates Inclusive Decision-Making: Ping-ponging ensures diverse voices are heard, helping the community make more well-rounded and inclusive decisions.
- Accelerates Problem-Solving: As ideas bounce around, potential issues are identified early, and innovative solutions are quickly developed through collective input.
How Does Effective Ping-Ponging in Our Communities Make Our Work Better?
- Create Safe Spaces: Encourage open-mindedness where all members feel comfortable sharing their thoughts without judgment.
- Use Structured Formats: Organize brainstorming sessions with clear prompts or questions to guide the idea exchange.
- Leverage Technology: Utilize online platforms that facilitate real-time discussion and idea-sharing, especially for remote or hybrid communities.
- Promote Active Listening: Remind participants to attentively consider each contribution before responding, ensuring meaningful exchanges.
- Follow Up: Keep the momentum by revisiting ideas, giving feedback, and implementing viable suggestions.
Ping-ponging ideas is more than just a metaphor; it’s a powerful technique that nurtures collaboration, sparks innovation, and deepens community bonds. By embracing this dynamic exchange, communities can grow stronger, more creative, and better equipped to face challenges together.
Leading Like St Nicholas

Merry Christmas! Yesterday I was reading a great piece in History Facts entitled Was St. Nicholas a Real Person. It was a great article and reminded me how important myths and these sub-creations were to what has become part of our culture. I realize I have broached a topic that there are many different thoughts and beliefs about, when it comes to myths and Santa Claus, but hear me out. First, we know there was a real St. Nicholas of Myra that was born around 280 CE and died around 343 CE (that date is disputed). What we do know is that he was a benevolent man and that much of the mystical wonder of Santa Claus was probably myth being created using the example of the real St. Nicholas.
J. R. R. Tolkien believed that myths and fairy tales were essential forms of art because they tapped into deep truths about human experience and the nature of existence. He viewed them as “sub-creations,” meaning that they allowed authors to create their own worlds and realities, reflecting the divine creativity inherent in the act of creation itself. For Tolkien, these narratives served not only as entertainment but also as a means of exploring profound themes like heroism, sacrifice, and the struggle between good and evil. He believed that through these stories, we could better understand our own lives and moral choices, making them invaluable to the human experience.
These sub-creations allowed us to capture the traits of the real St. Nicholas, known for his generosity and kindness, particularly towards children and the less fortunate. Here are a few leadership lessons and themes we can learn St. Nicholas:
- Generosity and Kindness: St. Nicholas was known for his acts of giving without seeking recognition. He secretly provided dowries for poor girls to protect them from being sold into servitude, emphasizing the importance of helping those in need.
- Compassion for Children: He had a particular affinity for children, which is reflected in modern Christmas traditions that focus on gift-giving to kids. His legacy inspires the idea that the holiday season is a time for joy and generosity toward younger generations.
- Miracles and Charity: Stories of St. Nicholas performing miracles, such as reviving three children who had been killed, highlight his role as a protector. This theme of miraculous acts evolved into the magical aspects associated with Santa Claus today.
- Cultural Adaptation: The figure of St. Nicholas has been adapted and transformed through various cultures over centuries, leading to the creation of Santa Claus. His image became more jolly and festive, embodying the spirit of Christmas.
- Symbol of Hope: St. Nicholas represents hope and the spirit of giving, reminding us that even small acts of kindness can have a profound impact on others.
These lessons emphasize the values of love, compassion, and community that should be central to our everyday life and not just during the holiday season.
“Humans Were Made To Work Together”

Earlier today, in Leading By The Courage To See, I blogged about developing our courage by listening and seeing. This had been inspired by my reading in The Upside of Disruption: The Path To Leading and Thriving In The Unknown by Terence Mauri and the fourth book in The Five Towers series, The Yellow Tower, by J. B. Simmons. Still quoting out of the same paragraph as yesterday in The Yellow Tower, I want to tackle the line, “Humans were made to work together.” I believe this was emphasizing emphasizing the importance of collaboration and community in human life. It suggests that we thrive when we support and rely on one another, highlighting our social nature.

In The Upside of Disruption, Mauri also pointed out that the heart of successfully evolving and innovating is collaboration (humans working together). He stressed that great ideas rarely come from individuals isolated from everyone else. As John Hendrix says, “Our work gets better in community.” Just like C. S. Lewis and J. R. R. Tolkien needed each other and the rest of the Inklings, we need teams working together and collaborations to create new and exciting innovations.

The lesson here is that teamwork, connections, partnerships, collaborations, and shared experiences enrich our lives, organizations, and communities. Working together leads to greater innovation, problem-solving, and a sense of belonging.
Genius Needs Community

I love it when books I am reading become interrelated without there being an intentional connection of my reading them at the same time. I had read the incredible book The Mythmakers: The Remarkable Fellowship of C.S. Lewis and J.R.R. Tolkien by award winning author, John Hendrix, while reading The Five Towers Series by J. B. Simmons. Interestingly, as is obvious by the title, The Mythmakers is about the relationship between C. S. Lewis and J. R. R. Tolkien and Simmons was heavily influenced by Lewis and Tolkien. Simmons was inspired by hearing The Chronicles of Narnia read to him as a child.

I had the opportunity to be with John Hendrix this week to hear the process behind the creation of his The Mythmakers graphic novel at the Marion E. Wade Center at Wheaton College. Which, by the way, Mythmakers is like nothing you’ve ever read before – it’s brilliant. One of the points Hendrix drove home at the end of his presentation was, “Our work gets better in community.” As he pointed out, without the fellowship of Lewis and Tolkien we don’t get to read about Narnia or Middle-earth. Hendrix stressed that we all need community and our own Inklings.

Then, the next day as I was reading in The Yellow Tower, by J. B. Simmons, Cipher (the protagonist) was told “Genius requires company to truly thrive. I’m sure you have figured out by now that your friends here are no coincidence.” This reemphasized the importance of collaboration and community in the creative process that Hendrix had explained the night before. Then I had the thought that it really was no coincidence that the unlikely friendship of Tolkien and Lewis happened. Think about the unlikely coincidental meeting of others in your own life.

Here are some key takeaways that I had from this idea of genius requiring company:
- Collaboration Enhances Innovation: Genius isn’t just an individual trait; it flourishes when ideas are exchanged and developed through interaction with others. This suggests that diverse perspectives can lead to greater creativity and breakthroughs.
- Support Systems: Genius needing company implied that even the most brilliant minds need support from peers, mentors, or a community to nurture ideas and refine talents. This highlighted the value of relationships and networks in personal and professional growth. I really want to for form my own Inklings!
- Shared Knowledge: Engaging with others allows for the sharing of knowledge and experiences, which can inspire and challenge us to think differently and expand our horizons.
- Encouragement and Motivation: Surrounding ourselves with creative and innovative individuals can provide the encouragement needed to pursue ambitious goals. This support can be crucial in overcoming obstacles and self-doubt.
- Collective Growth: Genius is portrayed as not just an isolated talent but part of a larger tapestry of human endeavor.
This all reinforces the idea that societal progress relies on collaborative efforts rather than individual brilliance alone. The world needs community!
Using Tolkien’s Leaf By Niggle As A Guide To Living With Significance

This past week I did research at The Marion E. Wade Center at Wheaton College for a book project related to my Scholar In Residence Program at The Kilns. I had the opportunity to sit down and visit with Dr. Jim Beitler, Director of the Wade Center, the Marion E. Wade Chair of Christian Thought, and a Professor of English at Wheaton College. I have gotten to know Dr. Beitler through the Wade Center’s Continuing Scholars Program. He is an amazing individual and I much appreciated his making himself available to me.

When we were done visiting I asked Dr. Beitler to pick something for me to read while here at the Wade Center this week. He almost immediately asked if I had read Leaf By Niggle by J. R. R. Tolkien. I said “No.” He gave me a brief description and later that day I read it. Wow! I really believe Dr. Beitler had gained enough background from our discussion and what I had sent him as background to the project I am working on that he knew I needed to read Leaf By Niggle. This short story was just what I needed to get in the right frame of mind for a few days of research, studying, and writing. Dr. Beitler had served as an Inkling for me. I hope at some point I can be an Inkling for him.

Before digging in any further, let’s examine Tolkien’s genius in picking Niggle for the protagonist’s name. According to Merriam-Webster “niggle” is a verb meaning “1. a. Trifle; b. to spend too much effort on minor details; 2. to find fault constantly in a petty way.” As a noun Merriam-Webster defines “niggle” as: “a trifling doubt, objection, or complaint.” Hopefully, you are not one that finds yourself “niggling” but I am sure we can all relate to falling into this trap at some point.
Leaf By Niggle by J.R.R. Tolkien impacted me with several profound lessons, primarily centered around the themes of purpose, creativity, and the nature of life. Here are some of my key takeaways:
- The Importance of Purpose: The story reflects on the journey of life and the importance of having a purpose. Niggle is an artist who feels compelled to create but is often sidetracked by trivial concerns. I was also reminded that we must control our passion. His journey emphasizes that having a focus and dedication to one’s work can bring fulfillment, even amidst distractions.
- Embracing Imperfection: Niggle’s struggles with completing his painting serve as a metaphor for the larger struggle of life. It highlights that perfection may be unattainable, and it’s important to embrace the process of creation rather than fixate solely on the outcome. The innovation Niggle was creating with his art was serving as a disruptor to society on a great level.
- Selflessness and Service: As Niggle is forced to help his neighbor, he learns the value of selflessness and caring for others. This transformation illustrates how acts of compassion can lead to personal growth and fulfillment.
- The Afterlife and Legacy: The conclusion of the story suggests a vision of the afterlife where one’s true contributions and efforts are recognized. It serves as a reminder that our actions and creations have lasting significance, and they may continue to grow and flourish beyond our immediate understanding.
This last point (#4) about legacy and lasting significance is an important one. I know I wish I would have learned much earlier in life that being significant is much more important than successful. Maybe there needs to be the success (money, accomplishments, position, awards), in order to be in a position of being respected, renowned, and listened to. But we must then know when to examine what we are becoming or have become to become significant in leaving our legacy.
We should not wait for the “journey,” in Niggles case, what I believe was a metaphor for purgatory, but a continual self examination of our lives and the legacy we are leaving. Socrates taught that, “An unexamined life is not worth living.” We need to realize that from the start we are creating significance and a legacy. I believe Tolkien was describing his own writing journey of The Lord of The Rings through Niggle in this story. In contrast to C. S. Lewis who could put his images to paper very quickly, Tolkien was much slower, agonizing over every detail, trying to make it perfect. Neither author, at the time, could have any idea of the legacy they would leave.
Overall, Leaf By Niggle invites reflection on the meaning of creativity, the value of kindness, and the impact we leave behind, encouraging readers to find balance in their pursuits while remaining open to the needs of others.
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