Finding Our Real Self
I have spent this week on the global stage, literally. For the 2026 FLUXX Asia Leadership Conference in Manila, Philippines I served as the opening keynote speaker, panel speaker, and received the Global Pioneer Award for Global Education Innovation. When I am in an environment like that with hundreds of great humans from all over the world (70+ countries), it really causes me to pay attention, seek to understand, and appreciate every unique individual. This week I have spent a great deal of time reflecting on principles from C. S. Lewis in Mere Christianity. I already posted “What Sort of Impression are You Making?” this week.
In Mere Christianity, Lewis also said, “Even in literature and art, no man who bothers about originality will ever be original: whereas if you simply try to tell the truth (without caring twopence how often it has been told before) you will, nine times out of ten, become original without ever having noticed it. The principle runs through all life from top to bottom. Give up yourself, and you will find your real self” (p. 226). From this, leaders can learn the importance of humility, selflessness, and authentic service. When we let go of ego, pride, or the desire for personal recognition, they create space to connect genuinely with others, build trust, and foster a collaborative environment.
This perspective encourages us to prioritize the well-being of those we serve and the collective goals over our personal agendas. By doing so, we often discover our true strengths, passions, and purpose, which leads to more genuine leadership. Ultimately, embracing selflessness not only helps us grow personally but also inspires others to do the same, leading to more meaningful and trusting relationships.
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