Byron's Babbles

The other night I had the amazing view of the moon in my featured photo shining on the Atlantic Ocean. I was amazed by all the light the moon was providing to see by. Also, the mirror the ocean was providing to the moon was breathtaking. The moonlight glistening on the ocean serves as a powerful metaphor for leadership. Just as the moon illuminates the vast waters, guiding sailors towards their destination, a great leader provides clarity and inspiration to their team.

The reflection of the moon on the ocean’s surface symbolizes how a leader’s vision can radiate outwards, creating a ripple effect of motivation and purpose. Like the ocean, which embraces the moon’s glow, a successful team mirrors the values and direction set by their leader, working in harmony to navigate both calm seas and turbulent storms. Together, they create a beautiful partnership, reflecting their collective strength and shared aspirations.

Yesterday, I had the opportunity to walk the entire east and south beaches of Tybee Island at the point of lowest tides. I have always been fascinated by the tides and when I am near an ocean I always get a tide chart. Yesterday as I was exploring I thought about low tide as a leadership metaphor! Most times we think of this low in the negative, but yesterday I was seeing so many cool landforms, sandbars, rocks, and ocean wildlife that can never be seen in high tide. This caused me to mentally explore how low tide represents moments of clarity and opportunity in leadership. During these times, leaders can uncover hidden potential and strengths within our teams that might be submerged during busier, “high tide” situations.

Here are some of the thoughts I had while walking on the beach:

1. Visibility of Strengths: Just as sandbars and landforms become visible at low tide, we can see the unique talents and capabilities of our team members when they take a step back and lower the pressure. This visibility allows for better resource allocation and team alignment.
2. Creating Space for Reflection: Low tide provides a moment for introspection and strategic thinking. Effective leaders use these times to reflect on successes and challenges, adjusting our approach to foster growth and resilience.
3. Building Relationships: When the tide is low, there’s often a sense of calm that can foster deeper connections. Because relationships are so important, we should use low tide moments to engage in meaningful conversations, strengthening team bonds and understand individual motivations, needs, and goals.
4. Navigating Challenges: Just as navigating rocky shorelines can be tricky at low tide, effective leaders must carefully assess the current landscape of their organization, identifying both obstacles and opportunities.
5. Preparing for High Tide: We can use low tide to prepare for upcoming challenges or busy periods. By leveraging this time effectively, they ensure that our team is ready to respond to future demands.
6. Skill Development: Using low tide as a time for training and skill-building allows team members to grow professionally. Leaders might organize workshops, online courses, or mentoring sessions, ensuring their teams have the skills needed for future challenges.

During low tide, leaders can take a step back and reassess how everything is going in the organization. Low tide really provides a time for reflection. We need to take the low tide moments and use them to our advantage.

On Monday evening we had the chance to eat at a highly recommended place on Tybee Island, Fannie’s On The Beach. Awesome food, incredible people, and first rate service. The one thing they had that put the customer experience over the top was butcher paper on the table and crayons. Those that have been a part of my gatherings know I love using crayons and creating images. Of course, Monday night was no exception, I began coloring immediately. My subject was a tractor and baler baling hay. Because we use New Holland equipment on our farm I began designing a blue tractor. Then I realized I only had four colors in my cup – red, blue, yellow, and green.

After this realization I got up and walked to a couple of other tables to see if I could find a black crayon for the tires. I quickly realized that there were only the same four colors on every table – red, blue, yellow, and green. What to do? Improvise and create with the colors I had. Are you beginning to see the leadership lessons coming through? Bottom line: my art was a hit with everyone at Fannie’s. Here is my creation:

We can learn several valuable lessons from working with a limited palette of red, blue, yellow, and green crayons to create a picture:

1. Resourcefulness: With only a few colors, we must think creatively and find ways to effectively use what we have. This mirrors the need to make the most out of limited resources in real-world scenarios.
2. Collaboration: Just like blending colors can create new shades, leaders can discover the importance of collaboration. Working with others’ strengths can bring out more vibrant results than going it alone.
3. Simplicity: Sometimes, limitations can drive simplicity in decision-making. Focusing on a few key elements allows leaders to prioritize our goals and strategies without becoming overwhelmed by options. I’ve got to tell you I believe my drawing was better because of the simplicity of only having four colors. This really made me reflect on the importance of both conciseness and limiting the number of options.
4. Innovation: Constraints often inspire innovation. Leaders can learn to think outside the box and experiment with different combinations and techniques to achieve a desired outcome.
5. Perspective: Using only a few colors can help us appreciate the beauty in simplicity and uniqueness. It teaches us to value diverse perspectives and approaches within our teams.
6. Patience and Practice: Creating a beautiful picture with limited crayons may require trial and error, teaching leaders that mastery takes time and effort.

By embracing these lessons, we can enhance our own skills and foster creativity within our teams, even when faced with limitations.

I blogged about shadows before in Our True Essence. That post was inspired by George MacDonald, who in Phatastes, used the metaphor of Anodos’ shadow to represent his inner and negative emotions. In that blog entry I said, “He (Anodos) was glad to lose his shadow because it symbolized letting go of his past traumas and struggles, allowing him to move forward with a sense of lightness and freedom. Losing his shadow enabled Anodos to embrace personal growth and transformation. In Phantastes we learned the importance of embracing all aspects of ourselves, even the parts we may want to hide or ignore. It serves as a reminder to always stay connected to our inner selves and not let external influences cloud our true essence.” Yesterday, as I was taking a walk on the beach, I noticed my shadow – because of the angle of the sun, it was really tall (see featured photo).

While standing there on the beach studying my shadow, I pondered the idea of the metaphor of a shadow indeed having positive connotations. While George MacDonald may have depicted the shadow as a representation of negative aspects or unresolved issues, it could also symbolize protection, depth, and the complexities of our existence. Just as a shadow adds dimension to a landscape, our shadows can represent the depth of our experiences. They remind us that our past, both light and dark, contributes to who we are today.

Shadows are a natural byproduct of light. In this sense, they can symbolize growth and the interplay of challenges and successes in our lives. The darkness can motivate us to seek the light and strive for improvement. Acknowledging our shadows—our flaws, fears, and vulnerabilities—can foster empathy towards others. Shadows remind us that light and dark coexist. Embracing all parts of ourselves leads to a more balanced, authentic life. It encourages acceptance of our imperfections and the understanding that they contribute to our humanity.

The shadow we cast can also refer to the impact we have on others—our influence, values, and teachings. A positive legacy can inspire and guide future generations. By reframing our shadow in a positive light, we can appreciate it as a complex aspect of the human experience that reflects our journeys, relationships, and contributions.

Please allow me to have a third post in a row inspired by Richard Baxter and The Reformed Pastor (1656). Baxter’s spending a great deal of time on necessities versus superfluities has caused me to pause and do a great deal of thinking. Baxter emphasized the importance of discerning between necessities and superfluities in various areas of life, particularly highlighting how this understanding can guide us as individuals and leaders in our pursuits and service of others. We should prioritize the activities that align with our values and goals over those that simply fill time but lack meaningful value.

Baxter also stressed committing to lifelong learning and self-improvement as essentials, instead of chasing after status or accolades that may not contribute to true personal development. Gregory Nazianzen said, “Necessaries are common and obvious; it is superfluities that we waste our time for, and labour for, and complain that we attain them not” (p. 47). Baxter gave us this quote to emphasize the idea that basic needs and necessities in life are typically clear and universally recognized, while it is often the pursuit of excess and non-essential things that consumes our time and energy.

Nazianzen suggested that people tend to focus too much on superfluous desires, leading to frustration and dissatisfaction when they don’t achieve them. The point he makes encourages individuals to prioritize what truly matters in life—the essentials—rather than getting caught up in the endless chase for more or superficial gains. It’s a reflection on the importance of wisdom and contentment in one’s pursuits.

These superfluities can be related to many areas of our lives and leadership; even our reading. Baxter even gave us an example in choosing the books we learn from when he said, “If you are to choose what authors to read yourselves, will you not rather take those that tell you what you know not, and that speak the most necessary truths in the clearest manner, though it be in barbarous or unhandsome language, than those that will most learnedly and elegantly tell you that which is false or vain, and ‘by a great effort say nothing’” (p. 58). We must commit to lifelong learning and self-improvement as essentials, instead of chasing after status or accolades that may not contribute to true personal development.

Yesterday, I blogged Attracted To Novelties, having been inspired by Baxter’s The Reformed Pastor (1656). Today I am writing having been inspired further by his understanding of necessity versus opinion. While Baxter was focused on church leadership, he was really showing his overall leadership expertise that we all can glean from. Richard Baxter emphasized the idea that necessity is confined, while opinions can be broad and varied. Leaders should prioritize essential values and principles in our decision-making processes rather than getting sidetracked by popular opinion or trends. This means discerning what truly matters to their organizations and stakeholders.

“Necessity is shut up within narrow limits; not so with opinion” ~ Ficinus

Baxter argued, “The great volumes and tedious controversies that so much trouble us and waste our time, are usually made up more of opinions than of necessary verities…” Think about how many times we get caught up in a bunch of talk about things that don’t really matter or opinions not based on any facts. Both Baxter and Seneca advocate for a thoughtful approach to life. We can foster cultures of discernment within our teams, encouraging critical thinking and open discussions about ideas and strategies. This can lead to better decision-making and a more engaged team.