Two Heads Are Better Than One
I’ve never heard anyone describe C.S. Lewis as a teacher of leadership, but in the exhaustive study I am doing of him and all his writings I continually find nuggets that are quite genius and related to leadership in some way. Here is one such nugget I found this morning as I finished reading A Mind Awake: An Anthology of C. S. Lewis:
“People were no cleverer then than they are now; they made as many mistakes as we. But not the same mistakes. . . . Two heads are better than one, not because either is infallible, but because they are unlikely to go wrong in the same direction” (p. 290).
C. S. Lewis, reprinted from Introduction to St Athanasius’s The Incarnation of the Word of God in A Mind Awake
I believe we can break this statement down into two parts. Let’s first examine, “People were no cleverer then than they are now; they made as many mistakes as we. But not the same mistakes. . . .” When C.S. Lewis made this statement, he meant throughout history and across different time periods, humans have always possessed the same level of intelligence and made similar numbers of mistakes. However, the nature of these mistakes may differ. Lewis was highlighting the idea that while humans may make different types of mistakes in different eras, the fundamental capacity for error remains constant. This perspective suggests that we can learn from the mistakes of the past and strive to avoid repeating them in the present and future.
Now let’s examine the last part of the statement, “Two heads are than one, not because either is infallible, but because they are unlikely to wrong in the same direction.” Here, Lewis was emphasizing the value of collaboration and different perspectives. He believed that when multiple individuals come together to solve a problem or make a decision, their collective knowledge and diverse viewpoints can help to minimize errors and ensure a more balanced outcome. Rather than relying solely on one person’s judgment, having multiple perspectives can lead to a more comprehensive understanding and contribute to better decision-making overall.
Notice Lewis was promoting ‘collaboration’ long before it was a cool leadership buzz word. Of course, now we realize just how important collaboration is and how important relationships are to successful collaborations. I just blogged about that is Relationships Determine The Creative Outcome.
Freedom, Wandering, & Finding A Path
In the The Storyteller: Expanded…Because There’s More To The Story, Dave Grohl said of his mother, “I like to say now that she disciplined me with freedom by allowing me to wander, to find my path, and ultimately find myself.” I believe he meant that his mother, who was a public school teacher, gave him the freedom to explore and make his own choices. Rather than imposing strict rules and limitations, she allowed him to venture and discover his own passions and interests. This approach helped him develop his own identity and find his true purpose in life.
This wandering and freedom had to be tough for his mom as it led to Grohl dropping out of school. But, as his mom said, “It’s not always the kid that fails at school sometimes it’s the school that fails the kid.” Grohl really didn’t explain the statement except in his own context of wanting to become an artist as a rock musician. I believe as a school teacher his mom was rightly referring to the idea that sometimes it’s not the child’s fault for struggling in school, but rather the educational system or environment that is not able to meet their needs or support their learning style. I believe, as Grohl does too, that it is important to recognize that each child is unique and may require different approaches to learning. Instead of blaming the child for not succeeding, it is necessary to evaluate and address the shortcomings of the school system to ensure that every student has an equal opportunity to thrive academically. This is why I am so excited to be a part of policymaking for Indiana’ school redesign. We need a system where every child’s uniqueness can be celebrated and developed. We cannot continue as we are right now, where the best choice some is to drop out of school, because the school cannot meet the student’s needs – as was the case for Grohl.
Relationships Determine The Creative Outcome
Another great statement in the book, The Storyteller: Expanded…Because There’s More To The Story, by Dave Grohl was, “I wholeheartedly believe that the relationships between people determine the outcome of any creative endeavor.” When you think about it, this is so true. Our interpersonal connections and dynamics among individuals involved in a creative project greatly influence its final result. He argued that collaboration, communication, understanding, and trust between team members are crucial for creating something impactful and successful.
Also being emphasized was the importance of fostering positive relationships and working together harmoniously to achieve a common goal. According to Grohl, it is not just about individual talent or skill, but how people interact and collaborate with each other that ultimately shapes the outcome of any creative endeavor. As I always say: “Relationships matter!”
Discover Life Firsthand
Dave Grohl’s statement “I was discovering life firsthand” in The Storyteller: Expanded…Because There’s More To The Story, emphasized the importance of personal lived experiences and living in the present moment. It implied that he believes in actively engaging with life, seeking new experiences, and learning from them. His mother had provided and made possible many of those experiences. Grohl’s mother was a school teacher and clearly understood the value of lived experiences. This can also serve as a reminder for us to embrace opportunities, take risks, and be open to new perspectives. It encourages us to step out of our comfort zones, seek personal growth, and approach life with curiosity and a sense of adventure.
We need to make sure we are providing these opportunities for adventure and curiosity for all students. There are several ways to ensure that students have opportunities to discover life firsthand. Here are a few suggestions:
- Experiential Learning: Providing hands-on experiences and real-world applications of knowledge. This can include field trips, internships, apprenticeships, or project-based learning.
- Outdoor Education: Encouraging students to spend time outside, connecting with nature and participating in activities such as camping, hiking, or community service in environmental projects.
- Volunteering and Community Service: Encouraging students to engage with their community through volunteering. This provides them with the opportunity to make a positive impact, develop empathy, and gain firsthand experiences.
- Cultural Immersion: Organizing cultural exchange programs or activities that expose students to different cultures, beliefs, and perspectives. This can be done through partnerships with organizations, hosting international students, or arranging cultural events.
- Personal Projects: Allow students to choose and pursue personal projects that align with their interests and passions. This gives them autonomy and allows for self-directed learning, enabling them to engage with life on their own terms.
- Reflection and Discussion: Creating spaces for reflection and discussion where students can share their experiences, learn from each other, and develop critical thinking skills.
These are just a few of many examples, but by providing these opportunities, we can help students develop a deeper understanding of the world around them and foster a sense of curiosity, independence, and personal growth. And, by the way, research tells us that these lived experiences provides prior knowledge which improves students’ ability to learn to read.
People Inspire People
This is another post inspired by the great book, The Storyteller: Expanded…Because There’s More To The Story, by Dave Grohl. Several times in the book he said, “People inspire people.” Many of his stories in the book are how others inspired him to be who he is today. I love how he connects almost everyone he talked about to somehow being a key to his success. This was a reminder of how important every single person is to us and our continual development. Funny, we talk about the formative years being from birth to age eight, but I would argue, and I suspect Grohl would too, that every year of our life is formative as other people continue to inspire us.
As we close out 2023, I can think of many others who have inspired me and that I have learned from in the past year. I am way past the age of eight, but this was still a formative year for me. This is why I believe we should always view everyone as humans and not superheroes. Ordinary people are who inspire us. Grohl has inspired me to continue to be diligent in trying to create educational environments where every child can find and develop their passion. Grohl talked about being different and how tough that was. It shouldn’t be tough! We are all exquisitely unique and we need to be encouraging that uniqueness in others and cultivating our own uniqueness.
When Grohl said, “People inspire people,” he meant that individuals have the power to inspire and motivate each other. He believed that through our actions, words, and creativity, we can have a positive impact on others and encourage them to pursue their dreams and goals. Grohl emphasized the importance of human connection and how we can learn from and be inspired by one another’s experiences and achievements.
Manifested Twist of Faith
I am a huge believer in vision boards or other visual representations as a reminder of goals, things we want to accomplish, or a future vision we have for our lives. In his great book, The Storyteller: Expanded…Because There’s More To The Story, Dave Grohl explains his experience with the manifestation of his incredible career in music. I wish all young people, and old too, could hear this story. So, read the book! Grohl reminded us in the book that:
- If you can perceive it, you can achieve it.
- What you imagine you create.
- What you think you become.
- What you feel you attract.
Good stuff! Right? As Grohl told us, it’s the Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction is a belief or theory that states that thoughts and intentions have the power to attract similar experiences and outcomes into our lives. According to the Law of Attraction, what we focus on and believe in will manifest in our reality. suggests that by visualizing and aligning our thoughts and emotions with our desires, we can attract positive experiences and achieve our goals. The Law of Attraction teaches that our thoughts and energy are like magnets, drawing in whatever we focus on, whether it be positive or negative. It is often associated with the idea of manifesting one’s dreams and creating a life filled with abundance and happiness.
A manifested twist of faith is when something unexpected or unplanned occurs in a person’s life that ultimately leads to a positive outcome or change. It is often seen as a result of fate or divine intervention, where circumstances align in a way that brings about a different and favorable outcome than what was originally expected or intended. It is a belief that everything happens for a reason and that even seemingly negative events can lead to something better in the long run.
Back to my original comment on vision boards. Vision boards are an important tool for achieving our dreams and goals because they help to visualize and manifest what we want to achieve. By creating a visual representation of our aspirations, we are able to focus our energy and attention on them, which can increase our motivation and drive to take action towards achieving them. Vision boards also serve as a constant reminder of our goals and can help to keep us on track when faced with challenges or distractions. Additionally, vision boards can help to clarify our desires and provide clarity on what steps we need to take in order to achieve them. Overall, vision boards are a powerful tool for manifesting our dreams and making them a reality.
As a big time Dave Grohl and Foo Fighters fan I highly recommend putting this book at the top of your to read list. You might just have a manifested twist of faith.
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