Byron's Babbles

Yesterday I got to do something that I believe every educator reading this post would say are some of the greatest moments as an educator: reconnecting with former students. On Friday of last week I got this message from Jonathan Hawley:

Good Afternoon Big E,

Would you be up for reconnecting sometime in the next couple weeks? Let me know what works in your schedule!

Take care,

Jonathan

That message absolutely made my day. One, because it has been a lot of years since someone called me, “Big E.” Back in the day that was what all my students called me. Of course, I responded immediately that I would love to reconnect (see the featured photo).

Yesterday, we spent nearly an hour reconnecting. It was like no time had passed at all since we were last together. The point of this post is not to retell those stories, because those would be out of context for you. My point is however to reinforce how important building relationships is, particularly for teachers with students, and the tremendous value in reconnecting that Jonathan so wonderfully modeled for me.

As an agriculture science teacher I had the opportunity to really get to know our students and their families. In Jonathan’s case I was able to travel overseas with him not once, but twice. Those relationships then transform into incredible learning. It was so great to hear Jonathan share things he uses yet today that he learned from those experiences.

This reminder of the importance of relationships goes beyond education to all organizations and leadership. I am a believer in taking relationships beyond the surface level. Relationships matter. Relationship that go beyond surface level are built on a solid foundation of trust and mutual understanding. Those deeper connections provide emotional fulfillment and satisfaction that transcends mere service or reciprocity.

Reconnecting with people from our past can be incredibly fulfilling and wonderful because it allows us to rediscover shared memories, regain a sense of belonging, and see how both we and our relationships have evolved over time. It was so awesome to reconnect and get to know the Jonathan of today – a father of three and successful leader and professional.

Moments like yesterday bring an inspiring reminder of the bonds and experiences that shaped us, fostering feelings of nostalgia, gratitude, and renewed connection. This reconnection also offered new perspectives and insights, enriching our understanding of ourselves. For example, it inspired this post and me to think deeply about others I need to reconnect with. How about you? Is there someone you need to reconnect with?