Advice Is A Dangerous Gift
As I continue reading J. R. R. Tolkien’s The Fellowship of the Ring I keep reminding myself that Tolkien did not use nor like allegory. However, I still can’t help myself from being intrigued by scenes in the book and wanting to connect them to some lesson. One such scene was the conversation between Frodo and Gildor. Here is what they said: “‘And it is also said,’ answered Frodo: ‘Go not to the Elves for counsel, for they will say both no and yes.’ ‘Is it indeed?’ laughed Gildor. ‘Elves seldom give unguarded advice, for advice is a dangerous gift, even from the wise to the wise, and all courses may run ill. But what would you? You have not told me all concerning yourself; and how then shall I choose better than you? But if you demand advice, I will for friendship’s sake give it. I think you should now go at once, without delay;…” (p. 84). Frodo’s and Gildor’s words highlight the cautious nature of the Elves when giving advice, emphasizing how even the wise can be guarded.
The elves are wise and experienced, but also careful about sharing their knowledge and advice, knowing that words can have unintended consequences or that their insights might be misunderstood or misused. The quote recognizes importance of discretion: Sometimes, it’s better to be cautious about what we share, especially when the information could be sensitive or misunderstood.
There is wisdom in silence. Silence or restraint can be powerful, allowing us to observe and understand before speaking. We need to Recognizing that different people may interpret advice differently, and that sometimes holding back is a sign of wisdom.
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