Byron's Babbles

Our Internal State Shapes Our Future Experiences

Posted in Educational Leadership, George MacDonald, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 31, 2025

In George MacDonald‘s Lilith, he emphasized the importance of inner qualities and personal development over external circumstances. In the book, the character Mr. Vane says, “That which is within a man, not that which lies beyond his vision, is the main factor in what is about to befall him: the operation upon him is the event.” At that moment in the book, MacDonald wants to highlight for us that our internal state—our beliefs, character, and moral strength—primarily shapes our future experiences. The phrase at the end of the sentence, “the operation upon him is the event,” suggested that external events are secondary; what truly affects us is how we respond internally.

Mr. Vane’s takeaway from this in the context of the story was the understanding that, regardless of external circumstances, our true power lies in how we manage our own internal state. Mr. Vane was recognizing that cultivating a positive mindset, virtues, and inner resilience can help us navigate challenges more effectively. Essentially, Mr Vane learned that by focusing on his internal operation—his thoughts and moral character—he could influence his experience of life’s events rather than being solely at the mercy of external factors. This realization models for us personal responsibility and the importance of inner growth as key to overcoming difficulties and achieving a sense of fulfillment.

The Path of Consistency and Trust

Posted in Educational Leadership, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 29, 2025

Every year when we put a group of cows or heifers out in our different pastures I am always amazed at how they will make paths in different parts of the pasture back to the barn, water, or area where we feed them, depending on the pasture. In the featured photo of this post I have highlighted a trail that cows close to freshening (calving) made from the woods into the main pasture leading to one of our barns. Every spring the groups make a new path; continuously taking the same route back to shelter or water. The cows find the most desirable terrain and continuously take exact same route to get there. This got me to pondering whether there was a leadership lesson in there somewhere.

Cattle always using the same trail can serve as a powerful leadership metaphor. Just as cattle repeatedly follow the same trail, effective leaders often establish clear, consistent guidelines, processes, and routines. Followers trust the path because it’s familiar and proven, which fosters stability and confidence. It emphasizes the importance of creating a dependable direction that others can rely on, encouraging continuity and collective progress.

While establishing clear guidelines and routines can promote stability, one thing to beware of is that over-reliance on them might lead to rigidity or resistance to change. If leaders become too focused on maintaining established routines, they may overlook the need for innovation or adaptiveness in response to new challenges. This can result in stagnation or an inability to respond effectively to evolving circumstances.

Love And Understanding

Through my work at the Marion E. Wade Center I have become a huge fan of George MacDonald. His work had a big influence on C. S. Lewis. I am finding his work to influence me both professionally and spiritually. Right now I and reading and studying George MacDonald’s Lilith: A Romance.

MacDonald’s quote in the book, “to understand is not more wonderful than to love,” reflected a deep philosophical and spiritual insight. Essentially, MacDonald suggested that love has a higher, more profound value than mere understanding. At first I struggle with this, because I am such a believer in seeking to understand others, particularly from a leadership standpoint. Then, however, as I dug deeper into the context and really reflected I came to appreciate that while understanding involves intellect and knowledge—comprehending concepts, facts, or situations—love goes beyond the intellectual. It embodies compassion, connection, and a kind of wisdom that recognizes the intrinsic worth of others.

In the context of Lilith, this statement emphasized that true greatness or wonder lies not just in grasping ideas or truths, but in the capacity to love genuinely and unconditionally. Love can transform and elevate our experience of life, opening us up to deeper meaning and connection that understanding alone may not fully achieve. Therefore, MacDonald elevated love to a more divine or extraordinary realm, suggesting it holds a greater potential for fulfillment and wonder than simply understanding.

Our Portable Assets: Skills and Reputation

Posted in Education, Educational Leadership, Global Education, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 23, 2025

Something I believe is important for young people and adults alike to understand is that our skills and reputation are portable assets. These qualities are valuable resources we carry with us across different situations, careers, or environments.

Skills are like tools in our personal toolkit—they can be applied in various roles or industries, making us adaptable and versatile. Our reputation, which is built on trust, credibility, and how others perceive us, can also follow us from one job or community to another, often opening doors and creating opportunities.

We must remember and make sure that our students and young adults understand that both skills and reputation are assets that aren’t tied to a specific place or time; they can be transferred and utilized wherever we go, helping us succeed and grow regardless of the particular circumstances.

Relaxing When Effort Serves No Purpose

Posted in Educational Leadership, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 22, 2025

When I was in Montana a couple of weeks ago I spent some time in the areas where John Liver-Eating Johnson, born John Jeremiah Garrison Johnston, lived in central Montana. Also, a local Montana person recommended that I read the book, Crow Killer: The Saga of Liver-Eating Johnson by Raymond Thorp and Robert Bunker. The book is absolutely incredible and very hard to put down.

As with any book, I am finding things to think deeper about. In the book, when discussing Johnson’s ability to relax, Thorp and Bunker described the liver-eater in this way: “Johnson could always relax when there was no purpose in effort.” Thorp’s statement suggested that Johnson was adept at distinguishing between situations where effort was necessary and those where it wasn’t. When there was no clear goal or necessity, he could truly relax and be at ease, rather than feeling compelled to keep busy or exert constant effort.

From Johnson’s example, we can learn the importance of recognizing when our efforts are genuinely needed and when they might be unnecessary or counterproductive. His ability to relax when effort served no purpose highlights the value of mental discernment—knowing when to act and when to let go. Developing this awareness can help us avoid unnecessary stress, cultivate genuine relaxation, and conserve our energy for moments that truly matter. In essence, Johnson’s calmness in appropriate moments teaches us the power of mindful relaxation and the importance of discerning effort from ease.

Hurried or Impatient?

Posted in Educational Leadership, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 19, 2025

I am reading Artemis by Andy Weir right now. He is such an incredible author and this one might be one of my favorites of his work. This is about a colony, Artemis, started on the moon. The protagonist, Jasmine “Jazz” Bashara, is a citizen of Artemis who works as delivery woman and also smuggles goods to survive in the expensive city. I don’t want to give away the plot because you need to read the book. But for the context of this post, Jazz is carrying out a rebellion to save the city. Her dad, Ammar Bashara, does not approve of her rebellion but still helps her with a welding project that is needed to be carried out. Ammar is a Muslim who works as a highly skilled welder in Artemis. He taught Jazz to weld and was talking her through a project as she was welding.

At one point Ammar said to Jazz, “You’re not in any hurry, just impatient.” This caused me to pause and to think about how many times this happens to us. We get in a hurry even though we don’t need to be; we are just impatient. When we feel hurried due to impatience, it often stems from internal feelings like frustration, anxiety, or a lack of trust in the process. Even if our outward behavior suggests we believe there’s no rush, our internal state might be pushing us to act hurriedly.

This disconnect can lead to unnecessary stress and may even affect our interactions or decision-making. In the context of Artemis, Jazz’s dad recognized this and was worried about her ability to make perfect welds because she was hurrying and did not need to hurry; she had plenty of time. Recognizing this helps us understand that patience isn’t just about external actions but also about managing our internal responses.

To address this, we can focus on mindfulness techniques—such as deep breathing or pausing before reacting—to help slow down internal impulses. Cultivating awareness of these feelings allows us to consciously choose patience over impatience, leading to more peaceful and effective outcomes.

Reflecting: Embracing Our Inner Battles

Posted in Educational Leadership, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development, Reflection by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 18, 2025

Those who know me know I am a very reflective person. The great band Melrose Avenue has a great song “Reflections.” This song really resonates with me. It has a dark side but there are so many things we can learn from the lyrics. The song encourages us to recognize how our actions affect ourselves and others, promoting introspection. This song highlights that feelings like regret or denial are natural parts of the human experience, reminding us to be compassionate with ourselves. Facing inner struggles can lead to greater self-understanding and personal development.

Melrose Avenue – Reflections

The line “I can’t see what I’ve done” really jumped out at me. Many times we are unaware or unable to recognize the impact of our actions, possibly because we are overwhelmed, in denial, or emotionally numbed. It reflects a struggle to understand oneself or take responsibility, highlighting feelings of remorse, regret, or self-doubt. This line captures the difficulty at times of confronting our past or the consequences of our choices, adding depth to the song’s themes of introspection and inner conflict.

Here is a breakdown of a few other lines from the song that resonated with me:

  • “Now I’m fighting for the hope of second chances” speaks to our yearning for redemption or a fresh start, hoping to fix past mistakes or circumstances.
  • “But I don’t think I’m gonna make it in time” reflects doubt or a sense of urgency, feeling that it might be too late to change or alter the outcome.
  • “Do I change my ways? Do I keep them the same?” is an internal conflict we all face at times about whether to pursue transformation or stick with familiar habits.
  • “Should I save it for another day?” indicates the hesitation, contemplating delaying decisions or actions to a more suitable time. This reminded me of the times when we ask things like, “Is the timing right?” Or say, “This is not the right time.”
  • “All I see when I look at my reflection / Is the animal that lives inside” reveals a darker self-awareness, recognizing primal or instinctual aspects within — perhaps anger, fear, or other raw emotions.

These lyrics can inspire us to be more honest with ourselves, embrace our imperfections, and use our experiences as opportunities for growth.

The Seven Deadly Sins

Those that follow my blog know that I love the band, Deadlands. They created an incredible EP titled, SEVEN. The EP is about the seven deadly sins. There are seven songs that exquisitely deal with the seven sins. They inspired me to take a deep dive into each of the deadly sins and study Kasey Karlsen’s take on the sins through her lyrics. She is very talented at creating the stories of the sins and the lessons we can learn. I blogged about each of the sins based on the songs.

This was such a great study that I wanted to provide a place for you all to access them in one place. Here they are:

  1. Pride – The Unpopular Fault
  2. Greed Is An Exception
  3. Gluttony – Our Self-Inflicted Catacombs
  4. Breaking the Chains of Sloth: Building Momentum and Staying Disciplined for Long-Term Success
  5. Beyond Lust: The Illusive Dream of Perfection and the Tragic Beauty of Chasing Illusions
  6. Understanding Envy: The Deep Longing to Mirror Others’ Achievements and Qualities
  7. Under the Weight of Wrath: Building Foundations in a House of Cards

We need to be aware of how susceptible we are to the dark power of our own disordered desires. Deadlands giving us this collection as a reminder of sin as self-destructive habit that shapes our lives  is very powerful. As humans we must recognize the struggle between good and evil.

This all reminds me of what it says in Proverbs:

For your ways are in full view of the Lord, and he examines all your paths.

The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them; the cords of their sins hold them fast.

For lack of discipline they will die,  led astray by their own great folly.

(5:21–23 NIV)

The 23rd verse here is very powerful. Kasey’s lyrics in the seven songs remind us to be disciplined and not let our folly keep us from being a positive influence on others.

Under the Weight of Wrath: Building Foundations in a House of Cards

Posted in Deadlands, Educational Leadership, Global Leadership, Leadership, Leadership Development, Wrath by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 17, 2025

This is my seventh post addressing the seven deadly sins. I was inspired to take this journey of learning by the great band, Deadlands. The lyrics that Kasey Karlsen wrote for each of the sins are amazing. In this last song, “House of Cards”, dealing with the deadly sin of wrath, I also have to give a shout out to CJ Arey, who writes the music. When I listen to the notes, I actually hear wrath. When I listen to the song and study the lyrics, I hear a focus is on the fragile nature of constructed facades and the importance of authenticity and resilience. It emphasizes vulnerability and the fleeting stability of appearances. If you think about it, wrath makes us very fragile – probably why it is one of the seven deadly sins.

Deadlands – House of Cards

The themes of anger or frustration come through loud and clear as part of the broader idea that superficial structures can easily break down when faced with intense emotions. When I think about the fragile structure of a house of cards that is insubstantial or easily destroyed, I am drawn to the phrase in the song, “I see right through your paper soul (paper soul)”. To me this suggests that Kasey and CJ perceive the villain in the song as being superficial, fragile, or insubstantial—like a paper soul. It implies that beneath their exterior, there’s a lack of genuine depth or authenticity, and that their emotional or spiritual core is easily torn or broken. The repetition of “paper soul” emphasizes its fragility, highlighting that what might appear to be something substantial isn’t truly resilient or real. Thus, if we operate like that we are like the metaphorical house of cards and easily destroyed. Overall, it’s an incredibly poetic way of expressing that a person’s true self or inner essence is transparent and potentially fragile.

The metaphor of a house of cards so beautifully relates to wrath. Wrath, like a house of cards, can appear controlled and manageable on the surface, but underneath, it’s fragile and easily toppled. When we become filled with intense anger, their emotional stability may rest on delicate foundations—just like a carefully balanced stack of cards. A slight provocation or unexpected event can cause it to collapse suddenly, revealing how volatile and unstable wrath truly is. This metaphor highlights the potential for destruction and the importance of managing anger before it causes everything to come crashing down.

Chasing Enough: How Greed and Vanity Keep Us Spiraling in the Pursuit of More

Posted in Educational Leadership, Global Leadership, Greed, Leadership, Leadership Development, Royale Lynn, Vanity by Dr. Byron L. Ernest on August 16, 2025

Back in July I wrote a post about greed titled, Greed Is An Exception. Greed is one of the seven deadly sins and I was writing the post as part of a series about the deadly sins. Yesterday, after visiting a very dear friend that I always kid about being a bit vane, I heard the great Royale Lynn song, “Greed”. The song, that you really do need to listen to (or better yet watch the video I’ve linked here for you), got me thinking about the crossover between vanity and greed. Both can stem from a desire for superficial or materialistic gains—vanity focusing on appearances and external validation, while greed centers on accumulating wealth or possessions.

Royale Lynn – Greed

A couple of lines really jumped out at me in Royale Lynn’s song. The first was, “And you’re never satisfied; There’s nothing that you won’t do.” When driven excessively, vanity can lead individuals to prioritize their image above all else, sometimes at the expense of ethics or humility, which can resemble greed’s obsession with accumulation. If you’ve ever encountered a vane leader, you know how this can hinder the effectiveness of this individual.

The other lines, “Feed on the greed that makes you; When it’s gonna be too much; When It’s gonna be enough; You always want more” highlight the relentless nature of greed and how it can drive individuals to continuously seek more, often without regard for ethical boundaries or personal limits.

Relating this to the crossover between vanity and greed, these lyrics suggest that vanity—an excessive pursuit of beauty, status, or admiration—is fueled by a similar insatiable desire. Both traits involve an underlying craving for validation, control, or recognition. Just as greed pushes for material accumulation beyond necessity, vanity pushes for external affirmation beyond genuine self-acceptance.

The lines also imply a point where fulfillment is never truly reached (“When It’s gonna be enough”), reflecting how both greed and vanity can become addictive, leading people to perpetually chase after more—more wealth, more admiration, more power—making it hard to recognize when they have enough. This interplay underscores how both traits can intertwine, often reinforcing each other in a cycle driven by a need for control, recognition, or superiority, rather than genuine fulfillment.