Nostalgia: Our Kids Triggering Memories

As I sit and do my morning study and reflection time today on Thanksgiving, a great feeling rushes over me as I think about my son, Heath, being here and in his room. I have been excited about him being home for Thanksgiving ever since he told us he would be here. Keep in mind I was just with him last weekend for our trip to the Harvard/Yale football game (The Game). Those that know me know that ever since he started college I would be in a funk when he was gone. Now that Heath is an adult and out of college I’m not quite as bad, but I must admit I was in a bit of a funk after leaving him on Sunday till he got home last night. Just seeing his truck parked in the driveway this morning brings me joy. I know, it’s weird, but I love spending time with my son.

This all got me thinking about why we get that great feeling when our kids are home and under our roof visiting. There’s something incredibly comforting and fulfilling about having our adult children return home. Here are a few things that come to mind as I sit and reflect:

Sense of Connection: Having our kids home creates a sense of closeness and connection. It’s a reminder of family bonds and shared experiences, which can bring joy and warmth.
Nostalgia: Seeing them in their old spaces may evoke fond memories from their childhood. These memories can be bittersweet but ultimately rewarding, as they remind us of the journey we’ve all taken together.
Safety and Comfort: Knowing that our children are safe and sound at home can alleviate worries. Home often represents a place of comfort, stability, and security.
Pride: Watching our children grow into adults can bring a deep sense of pride. You may feel satisfaction in seeing them navigate life independently and then choose to return to their roots.
Opportunities for Connection: Their presence offers opportunities for meaningful conversations, laughter, and the chance to reconnect. It fosters an environment for building deeper relationships.
Fulfillment of Parenthood: For me, seeing Heath thriving and returning home affirms that we did okay raising him. It can affirm the love, support, and guidance we’ve provided over the years.

Overall, these moments can be a combination of joy, reflection, and gratitude, making their return feel especially sweet.

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